Okay, so you want to know how to get back together with your ex girlfriend. In this article I will run through some things that you should keep in mind when trying to get her back. These include: not appearing desperate, to analyse what went wrong in the relationship, to work on improving yourself, and to socialize.
Don’t Be Desperate
One of the worst things you can do when your girlfriend has just left you is to appear too desperate and needy. Being desperate and needy is a very unattractive way to be.
Analyse What Went Wrong
Once you have calmed down from the initial shock of your girlfriend leaving you, you need to take some time out to be introspective and think about what went wrong in the relationship.
It is important to be honest with yourself during this time. Try not to dwell too much on all the things that she did wrong. Think more in terms of analysing your own behaviours during the relationship, and try to think of ways in which you could have done things differently.
Work On Improving Yourself
Once you feel like you have got to the bottom of what went wrong in the relationship and the part you played in the break-up, you then need to take some time to work on yourself.
You can interpret this in any way you want, but you must be sincere and committed in your quest to improve yourself. Any areas of yourself that you think you could improve upon, set about improving them. Join a gym to get fit and get healthy, resolve to be nicer to people, learn how to control your anger. Whatever it is that you feel you need to work on.
During this time, you need to make sure you get out there and be as social as you can be. There is nothing to be gained from staying in all the time and being depressed. Get out there and have fun, and you will feel better – and hopefully, if your ex spots you out looking good and enjoying yourself, she may just think twice about her decision to leave.