Do you long for his warm embrace and the happiness you both experienced when you were together? Is there nothing more you can wish for than to get back together with the one person in your life who completely understood you?
If these are the things that your heart is saying right now then this article is just for you. Read through this article and let me help you in figuring out how you can get back together with your ex. I am saying this because I know exactly just how you feel. I was there too not so long ago and I compiled all the things that I did during this time that actually worked for our relationship.
I experienced confusion and self-doubt when I realized that I wanted to get back together with my ex. That is why I am here to help you gain the strength and focus that you need to make him discover the beauty of getting back together after everything that has happened.
Give Him Adequate Space
You may think that the past can be an advantage to you but do not abuse it. When try to talk to him give him the space he needs in order to access what you want. This means that you do not go into his family’s house and cook them cake like you have done before. You should know your boundaries too a man does not appreciate intrusion or someone breathing down their neck. Once you control yourself and have given him enough space then you will be surprised at how this can help in making him decide faster.
The Past is your Friend
Use the past to your complete advantage by being the woman he once fell in love with. Remember all the things he told you that he liked about you inside and out. This means that if you were friends before you became a couple be his friend again and hear him out. Also, physically if he liked how you dressed then wear the outfits that he complimented you in once or twice. Invite him to have coffee in a place or area you frequented as a couple. Believe that the power of familiarity can help you achieve your goal which is to have him in your life once again.
He will find out eventually that you want to get back together with him and it is only a matter of time. So go ahead and inform him of your plans and ask him if his doors are still open for you. Listen to everything that he has to say and how says it and make sure to take it to your heart. If he tells you some things that he wants to improve to make your relationship more solid then work on it and show him that you are serious about getting back together.
Source by Kayla Dettman