How to get back together after a break up? Is it possible? What if I have made all sorts of mistakes? Does it mean the end of my relationship? Can I still salvage my situation and get back together with my ex? Well, if you are reading this article, you are probably wondering how to get back together after a break up but you have absolutely no idea what the next step you need to take is. Most probably, you also have the questions above in your mind.
So, I Shall Answer These Questions Now.
First, it is definitely possible to get back together with your boyfriend or girlfriend even if you have made all the mistakes that you should not have made. Most probably, you are now shaking your head in disbelief. But let me ask you a question. Have you heard of people going back into an abusive relationship? How about men and women taking back their cheating partners?
Obviously, I am not encouraging anyone to go back into that kind of relationship, but I just want to illustrate the point that, no matter how bad you think your situation is, it is still possible to win back your ex. In fact, even if you have made all kind of mistakes, there is a secret tactic that you can use to erase all your mistakes. However, it is out of the scope of this article to describe this secret tactics in detail. To figure out how to get back together after a break up, I feel that it is absolutely critical that you know this Number 1 Principle.
And that is, “People Want What They Do Not Have”. When people cannot get something, they will tend to desire it more. On the other hand, when people know they can easily get their hand on something, their desire for it will not be very high. The reason why so many people failed to get back together with their ex is because they violate this principle, usually unknowingly.
Any act of desperation is considered a violation of this principle. For example, common mistakes like calling an ex several times per day, flooding your ex’s cell phone with all your text messages etc. This will reveal to your ex that you are feeling desperate. So, this means your ex will know that he/she can get you back easily whenever he/she wants to. According to the principle described above, it means your ex will not desire to get back together with you.
If you want to know how to get back together after a break up, don’t violate this principle.